Who said ricki is baggage

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The Bachelorette screen grab. LUKE P. And Sex? Being abused as a child, porn or sexual addiction, multiple sexual partners before marriage and a cavalier, flirtatious attitude after marriage are all life-style hurts and habits occurring prior to marriage that cripple it at its core. Baggage, baggage, baggage! Baggage comes in an array of styles and the effects are massive. There is emotional baggage derived from belittling, harshness and rejection where fears, insecurities and anger now rule the day.

Relational baggage is caused by being rejected, neglected and controlled early and then manipulated, dumped, or cheated on as one branches out. These rob one of the ability to trust and commit. Physical baggage exists where people are afraid to get close to others, keep their distance even in their marriage and doubt if they are worthy of loving treatment.

The breadth and depth of our baggage are often hard to measure. But never doubt this — dysfunction breeds dysfunction. You are who you are largely because of the impact of your root system.

Do people pick grapes from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? Because baggage is camouflaged or denied and often buried so far beneath the surface, it may not seem to be what are behind the growing communication, financial, sexual or other marital or life problems. But the reality is, our baggage unaddressed is like a deadly, corrosive and toxic acid that slowly eats away at a marriage from the inside out.

Every one comes into marriage with a past — a personal history that impacts relationships in the present. It can be either good or bad. Consistent love, unconditional acceptance and healthy boundaries also greatly influence you. You were just a kid. Your family of origin hugely influenced how you view life, relationships and yourself. The sources of our baggage vary. But many hurts are from those closest to us as we grow up. Our family of origin becomes our family of orientation.

From them we learn how to see and approach life. It shapes you and how you do relationships. Everyone, to some degree, comes with varying degrees of unhealthiness, unresolved issues and the possibility of blind spots. Some of the implications related to baggage seem on the surface to be more serious than others. But any of them, if left unresolved, can grow and fester. Eventually, that poison permeates the whole person, affecting their freedom and their ability to think clearly, feel healthy and respond positively.

Time does not heal all wounds let alone the crippling affect they have had on us unless we take deliberate steps to facilitate that healing. The health and welfare of your life, your marriage and your family depend on it. Face your blind spots. Like any other season, there was lots of drama, duh.

But there was one incident that was pretty bad, and that's where Kalon comes into play. The group traveled to London for a little bit, and while there they went to Stratford-upon-Avon and recreated scenes from Romeo and Juliette, and it was adorable. However, Kalon, who was billed as a "luxury brand representative" which I consider to be code for "skeeze" , made some unfortunate comments. At one point during the trip, he made the comment that Ricki was like "baggage.

Sadly, the actual comment was not caught on tape. Or, maybe it was, but the producers decided not to show it. Either way, it irked the other guys vying for Emily's heart and contestant Doug went running to Emily to let her know what happened.

Doug pulled her aside, and very calmly told her what Kalon said about her daughter. Emily, being a mom, reacts like Harry Potter's kick-ass Mrs. Needless to say, Emily lets Kalon have it.